BE CONFIDENT TO RULE YOUR WORLD

47      BE CONFIDENT

“Of all the disorders of the soul; envy is the only one no one confess to”- Plutarch.

Boldness they say strikes fear; and the fears break the strength of confidence in any man. Whenever you get discouraged your powers shrink, but whenever you exhume guts, the deadened cells and nerves in you would resurrect and function with fresh stimulus.

When you are confident of your ability and knowledge, the picture is quite clear from the negative to the finished-positive; by polishing and preserving the beauty of your outcomes, simply for knowing whom you are, what you do and the peak of your destination.

More so, avoid doing things haphazardly and whenever you do anything, make sure you do it as an expert and a special person that you are – such that whenever troubles or difficulties creep in, you wouldn’t become confused or running from pillar to post because of lack of the know-how; but when you are able to fight the challenges with your expertise (confidence and know-how); you will find a genuine breakthrough that no scale can measure.

Timidity infects people with awkward energy; elicits embarrassment and exacerbate mistakes due to the tension of the frights; hence creates a vacuum in the accomplishment of our ambitions. More so, lack of confidence precipitates inferiority complex and thereby creates room for doubts and worries (anxiety); this without delay kills a dream before it’s dreamt.

It’s often perceived that experience is a wall of defense to confidence; and according to Cardinal Richelieu “Experience shows that, if one foresees from far away the designs to be undertaken; one can act with speed when the moment comes to execute them”.